assuming that you are accurate, and that nothing you do will get your w to agree to having sex, what then?
Indeed, that is the question.
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Let me add to that something you have said before, yet now seem to contradict... you said you were NOT okay with a sexless marriage. So, if "x" is a condition in the marriage that will not change and "X" is not acceptable- what do YOU want US to do with that?
Do the impossible.
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You seem to argue the opposite of every possibility tossed out. what do you want?
Well, that is the difference between someone who is newly in a situation, and someone who has been in it for over a decade and tried lots of things, no? It's hard to find something new to do that hasn't been tried before and didn't work. Except, of course, for the advice to keep trying again and again.
And to posters generally here, stop assuming I'm generally unhappy just because I don't have a good sexual relationship. And stop assuming I don't want a good sexual relationship just because I'm not unhappy. I thought that should be obvious to anybody who realizes that there's more to life than just sex.
