"If your W was MLC and not WAS, would it make a difference to you?"
By that question, I mean would your stand be any different?
No, I wouldn't stand any different. It would make me feel a little better if she was having a MLC. At least then she's irrational and actually going through something rather than just being cold-hearted and malicious. It would be easier to forgive and forget in the long-run.