I like that Gabbysmom, it pretty much sums up what our whole brief R was. I see her as a mystery wrapped in an enigma. Every layer you unwrap you just find another puzzle, never an answer. It's how she protects herself I guess. My best friend calls her "the little 5 ft wrecking ball just swinging through life". Unfortunately, smoke and mirrors doesn't really get you very far in R's. What it got her was a one way ticket back to alonesness where she probably functions best anyway. So sad and now I have to pick my own horses at the racetrack...which is probably even sadder! lol