Well I found out last night thru a mutal friend of mine and my H that my H still wants a divorce. He said that would be the only way we both could start over with each other. We get the divorce, then we can date each other and take things slow and go from there. This does not makes sense to me. Is it that he doesnt want a commitment or is it then he figures if we are not married but dating that he would not have bounderies?