Its a tough line to walk between denial and reality so its ok to try new things I think in a a gentle, loving way keep expectations low b/c person may "hear" and acknowledge the truth or they will deny get defensive and throw it back on you I would keep it simple with him..he may not be quite ready -but he is texting you and you can continue to be the grounding support as OW will be flying off the handle more and more as time goes on he is probably closer now to reality than ever thru the crises but you dont want the fingers pointing as you peace
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