"If your W was MLC and not WAS, would it make a difference to you?"
By that question, I mean would your stand be any different?
Because as far as the work (which is all about you), it's exactly the same.
I would ask you to read up on MLC and the stages of MLC, just so you understand it, in the event your W might be in one...
it's not like it's a taboo topic around here, but many here feel that labeling someone as MLC... well, somehow excuses the behaviours... or maybe entices a LBS to ease up on doing the work...
Anyhow, none of that really matters... Maybe it's something you might want to "educate" yourself about...
And keep doing the work... you and your kids and your W and your M... they all deserve the best you... you can be...