Hi L2L sorry for your situation...I am new also but have already gotten lots of great advice and support. When everyone else is sick of hearing it you can always come here and find someone to talk to that is in the same situation. My H wants a D also and he is also step dad to my 2 oldest. its really hard on them all good luck and if you want you can read my older post, it will tell you my pathetic story Hang in there
Me:48 H:42 M: 18 yrs. S: 9/1/09 due to alcoholic H D bomb: 9/9/11 OW confirmed 10/30/11 D papers filed 11/01/11 S15 S21(Special needs) S28
Look to yourself, It is there that all your answers are found...