alcoholic H decided he wants D

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Danl
I have to tell you that I have read your reply over several times tonight and it has really made me think. Thank you, it sounds like you have some experience with this situation and so I appreciate your input. Im concerned that he is working up to a drink, I found out he was at a bar last weekend "playing pool"..and he called me the other night with that tone in his voice that always let me know he had been drinking and for the first time in 18 months i asked him if he had and he said no.. like he would tell me huh?? Im not sure, dont think he is but feel like hes working up to it and scared.
I know this is his problem not mine but i still worry for him....