Alamo,
Hang in there man. I guess I don't understand what you mean. At least here in Texas, your W would be forced to stay in the same city as you, even if she has custody. And that's a good thing for your S and all the way around. Why do you think it would hurt him?

Also, I don't really see it as you pursuing the D at this point. She's the one who served you and got it rolling.

Me: 30
W: 28
T 8, M 6
S: 7-27-2007
W filed (again) 3-2011
Served 8-2011
Responded, now dark
"I have decided to stick with love. Hate is too great a burden to bear" MLK