Hmmmm....maybe the phone is a good way to go. I just remembered that a few weeks ago he actually asked "who were you trying to call?" when I was making a call...of course I'm sure I was dumb enough to tell him...gotta learn to keep my mouth shut... and now that I think of it, he brought me the phone w/a weird look on his face when a telemarketer called a few weeks ago, made the comment "well it seemed legit" I was thinking I don't even know any guys I could have call who arent relatives, but i could just whisper to a telemarketer that i need to call them back later! Ought to give them a cheap thrill, huh? i knew there was a good reason I never got around to being put on the no-call list. Maybe I need to think of a guy who's voice he wont recognize and have them leave a message to call them back....or is that too dishonest? hah, how ironic to be the worrying about dishonesty.
