This comes from the Jungian-Adlerian school of Fecoanalysis.
In all seriousness, Lila, I think I see where you are coming from and how perhaps in the greater context of your relationship this might not be as 'out there' as it could appear on a forum.
What would happen if you gave him the space to 'come around' to these conclusions on his own?
Would that be more real for him than if you've already put it out there?
M: 32 W: 29 T: 9 Years M: 4 Years I hit rock bottom: 2/11 PA admitted: 4/11 WAW: 5/11 D filed: 6/11 now: Patience, wisdom, and growth - hopefully.
