Actually CTH, I really enjoyed online messaging with MM but that was because I knew her and we had a relationship. We knew each others sense of humour and could say stuff that neither had to say "WTH did that mean?" My best friend is on E-Harmony and he was showing me his matches last week, not a bad crop there. I don't think he's had a date yet but I don't think he's been really putting a lot into it at this point. I've just always been someone who likes to warm up to someone in person, get to know them and then make my move. Meeting someone online feels odd to me. Of course, most things feel odd (cognitive dissonance, as we call it in the cognitive therapy world) until you get into doing them. What do you talk about online? "Hmm, I see you like lasagna" Maybe I'm just a big chicken ...I'll put that in my profile "I'm a big chicken with a big heart" lol. Nah, I think I'll just stick to healing for a few more weeks at least!
