Grace, Love, Compassion, and Faith - Good Stuff

[aeolianchaos]

Trying to schedule another mediation time is exhausting
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Sorry I'm trying to be loving.. but I don't want this D. I feel like I'm doing the coordinating and that I am playing the same role I always play in our r.

Hey Val,

So don't put your energy into it.

It isn't loving or unloving to not take over responsibilities for her in this case.

It's her divorce. You aren't going to stop her from getting it, but why would she think you would put your energy into helping her do it?

Especially if you have a lot on your plate. There is absolutely zero reason for you to make helping her jump through the logistical hurdles any kind of priority.

If I were in your shoes, I would put it at the bottom of the list.. after things like stocking up on toilet paper, learning some new recipes, and getting adequate sleep.