I just stumbled on to this thread....I'm thinking maybe I need to figure out some ways to "create mystery", but am kind of stumped....H and I still live togther, H is involved w/OW (all 3 of us work in same place), have S11....this past wk H misinterpreted a remark I made about conversation I'd had w/someone on this BB & next day made comment that I was "looking for a boyfriend on the internet"....so maybe I need to concentrate on adding mystery... I'm getting my hair cut short tomorrow, have gotten some new clothes, lost weight.... any ideas on what I could do while we are living together? I'm thinking I am not going to be home tonight when H & S get home from S's religious ed class (H sees OW there), just be a 1/2 hour or so later getting home; I need to not tell H so much about my schedule, etc., ....Any other ideas?
