I have begun to get some results. Just this past Friday, in fact. H was going out with coworkers, and I wasn't invited. (I always invite him out with my coworkers.) So, a friend of H who works with H invited me out instead. When I got there, there were several of H's coworkers there. My H was out with different coworkers at a neighboring bar. I met some nice people and one guy in particular, a nice married man that I hit it off with. Now, mind you, I have nothing untoward in mind, just looking for some friends to talk to.
When I got home, H was very interested that I had met so many people that he works with. He was interested that this guy seemed interested in me. H is not the jealous type, so any interest is more than I usually get. He brought up this other guy a few times. We had some things in common, so H wanted to know what this guy thought, like we were "soul mates" based on one meeting. LOL
He was definitely interested that I had had a good time. I am keeping my fingers crossed that some of these coworkers mention what a lovely wife he has today at work. he he he.
BTW all, I had a telephone session with Laurie last Monday. It was awesome. She is a great coach, if any of you are considering using one! She gave me the incentive to go out dancing with my H, which I did Saturday, and for the first time in 6 months, he held my hand!!! I posted the whole story in the Beginners forum, and on my thread in the Needing Support forum, if any of you are interested.
