DB 101-- encourage baby steps and positives, without forcing or pushing for more. Affection from her? Why would you resist or set up a boundary for that now, when you want a recon? We LIKE affection, right?
I mean, what?? [i] If you end up ML and feeling used later on, that's a different matter. But if you can handle it, go with the flow.[/i]
Let her feel comfortable around you. Keeping pressure off will help with that. Being warm will help with that, but NO expectations for now and the near future...
Make sense?
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