25- so you don't think he would be willing to do the above?^^^^ Because he is not there yet? Won't ever be? Or, is just pulling to wool over my eyes? I know he isn't there yet and I agree with what you wrote. He needs the c we both do. I will not take it on. He brought up a few things"if" he were to come home and I just listened. I knew it wasn't happening that night so just let him talk.