ROMB, I think a lot of what you're seeing is a by product of the roller coaster your H is on. He will draw closer, pull back, draw closer, pull back, and on and on and on. It's the hallmark WAS behavior.
I'll agree with WHG's suggestion. It may be best to go ahead and make some concrete plans that could include your H, but they don't have to. You can then invite him to come along if he'd like to.
P.S. you may want to include the whole month name in your search. 1 of 48 pix.
