NEED ADVICE

[gunny]

rick,
There is a guy in my divorcecare group who has been divorced from his wife for 3 years, but he is still living in their home with her and her new boyfriend. Financial situation has dictated this, plus their son is in final year of college, so they have worked it out. He is not thrilled with the sitch, but he says it works. We have to do what we have to do.

I am similar to you guys, sleep in separate rooms, we eat together, sometimes watch dvds at night, sometimes go running together down at canal, walk dog etc. But in general, in the last 4 months, we have been detaching from each other. But when she leaves permanently next friday it will be a shock, which I'm sure you may be dreading if/when your time comes. Hopefully, your time will never come, we never know whats in store.

Thanks for keeping in touch.