She's taken to just stopping by lately. Yesterday, she came over at 8:10 a.m. to drop off D12's costume. Today, she came at 8:15 a.m. to drop off D12's makeup.
It's only common courtesy to call or text before you just stop by ANYONE'S house but in particular, an exe's.
And I don't think in any way that would be an unreasonable request for you to make.
Everybody hurts. It's part of life. Don't miss the good stuff.