can't say what all the boundaries would be, but NO OW would be a minimal step...

of course, he could lie. Again...

and HIM initiating contact with the kids and spending time with them would be another. And seeing a c.

Those would be my minimal requirments. NO OW, seeing a c, and seeing the kids. THEN we could begin to piece...

and right now you are fearing "oh but that's too much for HIM"...and also knowing deep inside, it's really the LEAST he can do...

but probably won't....And that hurts.

But Life, that isn't on YOU. Don't take on any more of his choices, or their consequences. You have enough on your plate.


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change