my h is a very stubborn person , and i know it would take so much work to get him to leave ow. I think maybe she is d now and knowing my h he feels responsible to take care of her . even if he did want to leave her he couldnt cuz she is living at mil house and h would not make her leave and it would cause his mother stress if that happened too. i think maybe there might be hope when his mother passes away, not that i want her to. but then h could move out of his mothers house and move home easier. i think now there is no way h would leave his mother and ow. he always cared more about his mother than his own family which is not good. he was adopted and i always thought they had a dysfunctonal kind of love between them, not sexual just not healthy.
Wow, must be over a dozen assumptions in just this one paragraph that may or may not be true ....
Just saying.
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