Thanks JB! BTW, I have looked but still can't find any pics that match your description...
Not sure what to do about the school situation yet, I'm trying to let things 'cool down' a little before I bring it back up. It was really strange at the meeting- he was acting very much like a couple. Follow that by a fairly awkward afternoon with D. We were both avoiding each other, and during her class later we started joking about it and ended up holding hands (him, not me!).
He has made some comments in the last week that I don't know how to respond to. He keeps saying I'm not showing a real commitment, using the 'event' of last weekend as an example of this. I don't know the DB way to go here- should I continue making him take the lead?
The other part of me is really conflicted on this. I feel like he's in some ways trying to make me jump through hoops. For example, this week he wanted me to come by and see him in a 1.5 hour I had between picking up D from school. I was 30 minutes away. So I'm not willing to commit because I didn't see the point in 30 min. drive, 20 - 30 min. there, 30 min back to make car line.
We had a family outing planned for that weekend, but looked like we'd have to cancel due to weather. We were talking about what to do that day instead, and I am trying my DB best not to ask him to do something. That's when he says something like 'I wish you would ask instead of just talking about it and trying to get me to plan everything'.
So I asked him specifically, would you like to hang out anyway? He gets quiet, and then says he'd have to think about it. WTH?? Didn't you just complain that I won't just ask? Why would anyone say that if that's not what the implication was? Am I out of line or does it seem like he's messing with my head?
Is this just part of not being available all the time? Because he sure acts offended/mad.
