Yes, everything you have said makes sense. I have never asked for an apology from him about that. Because I knew if I did, it would not come from his heart.
I am proud of myself for not contacting him unless it was about our daughter. And that's only been once or twice in 3 weeks.
I have been reflecting on myself and I did own up to my problems with him when we first separated. There were times that I did over react, but that came from the hurt and resentment that I had for him. I am working on finding peace within myself. And as far the GAL, well, I am taking night courses working towards my CPA degree. I do go out with friends once in awhile.
Thanks so much for your advice. I really appreciate it.
