Along with abc's wisdom, remember that the other reason you are "moving on" is to take time to develop you and your interests. Making yourself a better person through socializing, developing new skills, sports, investment in your faith, etc., is an essental part of this "mystery" process! So, even though you aren't aware of what your W knows (and as abc implied - probably more than you realize), you are still moving forward with you!
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