Laurie - thanks for the news about DR and Sex Starved in paperback - I have a friend that needs a copy (since I got mine back from him)
Also folks - lets come up with some ideas on mystery - I started going to the gym 3 to 4 days a week - altho my ex knows that I go, she also knows that a lot of single women also go to the gym only to meet eligable mates. Even though she knows that I am only going to work out and work on me and I am not going to meet other women, the possibility that someone might hit on me can create some mystery.
I also started flying lessons again - not much chance of meeting lots of women there but my instructor is female. Regular meetings with another female (even for a legitimate reason) does kinda ring the jeolousy bell a little.
Was thinking of other activities to do by myself that are innocent but that do have a chance of meeting someone, (like maybe going back to church by myself on a regular basis, starting some class activity of some kind, etc.)
Any Ideas - we don't want to actually go to singles bars and all but .... Let's put our collective minds together and come up with some good ideas on "WORKING ON ME" activites.