I have to agree with both Paige and JB. Express your concern but expect nothing. Be there for her if she needs you. It's not about you or your m right now, it's about your w and her health.
My prayers are with you and your w.
M(f): 40 D'ed: 8/12
Show empathy when there's pain. Show grace when warranted. Kindness in the midst of anger. Faith in the face of fear.