yes paige, you are absolutely right. S is the most important thing -- and the one thing W seems to kind of toss to the fates~!~

agreed, it is depressing as all hell to have someone in the house who is not 'present' b/c they are preoccupied with OP. I have no idea how we, the LBS make it, but i know we DO. and we even grow and learn..... imagine that. Not making the same mistakes again either with WAS or someone else.

Yeah, i try really hard to convince myself all this learning is worthwhile. I'm starting to see the benefits~~~~ Thank U so much paige for commenting~~ My boy is really all I have to hold on to in the midst of chaos. I love him SO much~~~!!!


Me (f): 45
W(f) 35
T: 13 y
C: S4 adopted at birth
6-18-11 bomb: I want to break up
8-28-11 OW confirmed