I can't speak for May, but if it were me, I would need to know. And that's not to say I might not forgive it or heal from it, but it would bother me and continue to come out in the way May described when they were watching football until I knew.
I think the reason I'm reminding her of this is that while H is making progress, her progress (meaning readiness to move back in) might be both his "now" behavior - where he is at - but also that question she has in her mind that I hear is burning a bit....
But I do agree with Ken that it might push him away. And I do think there's a good chance she'd somehow find out down the road -though I suspect she might want to know it now, when everything is being worked through.
IDK - that's just my hunch that she's trying to forget but it's not working and it's going to keep coming up unless she really 100% commits to putting it to rest and being able to live with that uncertainty.
