thanks as always Rick. I've got your back and I know u have mine. Wish we could go out and talk in person~!

Redskins=== thanks for posting. I am SO appreciative. It's SUCH a mess. You are right, though. If I didn't know the DB techniques, I would have messed up even more. I noticed that W started texting OW in the middle of our convo.... and that was just, well, ridiculous. At one point she asked me if I wanted to call OW.... Of course I said -- NO, I don't even acknowledge her existence. WHy on earth would I lower myself to talk to her? (actually, i just said -- NO, but you know what I mean??)

thanks for the perspective. U are right. I do believe DBing has prevented many of these nonsense/dead end convos. I just wish when I was in the MIDDLE of one I could DETACH. RICK -- the DETACHING is hardest for me, but I'm practicing and getting better. Stronger every day, with the occasional setback.

Redskins -- I'll go check out your sitch. Thank you so much for posting!! I'm pretty much at a loss- but I'm slowly but surely growing. I guess really, that's all we can truly hope for!!!!!


Me (f): 45
W(f) 35
T: 13 y
C: S4 adopted at birth
6-18-11 bomb: I want to break up
8-28-11 OW confirmed