Does your wife want to save your marriage too?
Or is this one sided?

It has been about 18 months since I read the Sex Starved marriage book. but it seems to me that it is not much different than basic DB'ing.

How about the two of you seeing medical doctors?
To see if their is anything physically wrong?

I am sure(or guessing) that their might be some hormonal issues involved too?
Is you wife ready to address this?

Maybe getting some coaching from one of the DB coaches might be a good idea.

Keep reading the book and asking questions.

I also think their is a forum here on this topic. Try posting there.

Me-70, D37,S36