i have mention this in my own post but i thought i put part here to.

I have created some Mystery without trying, by doing my 180 my wife is now interested in what i am doing, she said that i sounded happy and joyfull like i used to be, and then asked me out right "you can tell me to get lost but WHO is she"
i told her i did not know what she was on about. i just kept telling her that i am getting on with my own life

she thinks i have a new woman i did not say i did i just said i did not.

do u think this is dangerous as i do not want to push her further towards her old boy friend who she is in contact with.

Craig