have been reading the book "journey from abandonment to recovery" recommended by someone on this board. Very good, explains the reason we tend to get so upset about being deserted/abandoned by loves, spouses, etc. In this time of heartache it has been very useful.

Just ordered the "power of now" from amazon, I think the philosophy could be very helpful right now. Anyone out there read these books or similar. What are your opinions on helpfulness/usefulness? Thanks a bunch!

m 54
XW 48
m 12
t 14
bomb 6-11
s 10-11
wife moved to other state 10-21-11
d 9-12

O GOD THY SEA IS SO GREAT AND MY BOAT IS SO SMALL!