There is no need to put any emphasis on the other person. They too are being duped by your MLC'er. They only know what they have been told and most of that is a lie. Unfortunately MLC'ers affair down, which is why they usually end up with ghetto trash. No need to fill your head with any more nonsense, just let the MLC ride itself out and get on with your own life. She will know where to find you when the time is right.