Compassion for a MLCer

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Thanks for your great replies!


This thing HAS to be an MLC. I know my REAL W and she would of never done anything like this. And for her to chose this OM shows that shes not in her right mind. She always set a high standard for herself and family.

She is trying really hard to get my kids to like this guy. During the whole separation, she was telling me a “ Are you nuts? I don’t want another man! Are you kidding me? To get out of a miserable relationship with you and then to jump into another one? HELL NO! Im doing ME now! I have to find myself and heal from 20 years of an abusive relationship!”

OM is a ghetto rat. The dude cant talk, write or even walk correctly. What do you expect from a 25 yr old punk that gets involved with a woman pushing 40 with 3 kids? And here the funny thing.. One of her complaints about me is that I played too much Xbox with my son. Guess what OM is doing in the house now??? Playing Xbox all day with my son! Lol. He likes sports just like me, movies just like me, and gaming just like me. Has tattoos just like me, more or less the same body type but, he’s a low life.

Its like when Ozzy Osbourne got rid of Zakk Wylde to put this new guy in his band! He plays and sounds JUST LIKE ZAKK!

I have read an article that MLC’rs OM/OW sometimes mirrors the LBS. They are just a cheaper version of them. They are someone that the MLC’er can control.

Well, yesterday, I got the news that OM was not the first. He was actually OM #3! Friends and family are coming out and telling me things that have been going on for a while. They knew this info from the beginning but they knew that I was not ready to hear it.

I’ve finally accepted what going on and believe me friends, once you accept it and understand it, the easier it becomes to GAL.

Every insult, text or verbal lashing I get now, just bounces off. Yesterday was very quiet. I heard nothing from W. Of course she is trying to put fear in me after she threatened that she was going to come after me and take me for everything that Ive got! LOL.

Ive been spending allot of quality time with the kids and church members. Its funny how God works. And, its AMAZING how in the midst of all this chaos, He does and WILL give you peace.

I challenge all LBS’s that during an episode of anger, grief or sadness to drop and pray for peace. IT WILL COME! It has happened to me all the time.

“And when the oceans rage, I don’t have to be afraid. Because I know that you love me. YOUR LOVE NEVER FAILS!”

On the brighter side of things…

I get a call from one of my good friends from church. He asked me to give him a hand in moving a 40 inch tv from his apartment (on the 3rd floor with no elevator) down to his truck.

But of course he would call me to do this! 6’1 240 lb and handsome?!? Why not???

So I said SURE! A 40” flat screen? Those things are pretty light! I’ll be right over!

I go into his apt and what do I see??? The only freaking 40” TUBE TV ever created by Mitsubishi!

That Bas#&$rd!

That thing was a MONSTER! I cant believe that back in the day we would go CRAZY to get one of these things!

So after sobbing and crying like a little baby for about a half hour, we brought that thing down stairs. Remember, 3 floors, NO ELEVATOR!

My buddy is a real small , thin guy. Kind of looks like a horse jockey.

I could of sworn that while we were carrying that TV downstairs, that he actually leaned on it due to exhaustion and I carried the both of them.

Gotta love Gods humor!

Have a good one everybody!