so, after conversation with w on sunday after she returned from trip to ohio, it seems to me things are pretty much over. She is leaving one week earlier than planned(which, all things being equal, is a good thing, the situation was becoming torturous for her and me). I told her I was not going to be in any hurry to file for d, (we are not filing now because she does not have job lined up out there and she will need to stay on my Health Ins until she finds one). She said she did not expect to hear that from me, that she thought we had agreed that I would file as soon as she got a job. She basically said she thought I was trying to control the sitch,which got her hackles up a bit.
She said she was taking things slow with the om/ea/maybe pa? that lives in the town she is moving to. He is an old flame from teen years who is in middle of d(apparently his w has not lived in their house for 1 year)I wanted to tell her to not get too excited about this guy, in general, these things usually dont work out, but, kept my mouth shut.
She is basically flying out of here, cant get out fast enough now that the finish line is in sight. We are still amicable, both sad, but she harbors some long brewing resentments against me that in an of themselves were minor, but taken in their totality exploded into bomb being dropped.
Oh well, just venting. Very sad sitch. AM galing all the time, IC, SUPPORT GROUPS, EXERCISE, ETC, REALLY SUCKEY TIME, BUT WILL GET TRHOUGH IT. THANKS AGAIN ALL FOR SUPPORT!!
m 54 XW 48 m 12 t 14 bomb 6-11 s 10-11 wife moved to other state 10-21-11 d 9-12
O GOD THY SEA IS SO GREAT AND MY BOAT IS SO SMALL!
