Hello Faith, Thank you for stopping in. Appreciate your words. W returned from her 3 day trip to ohio on Sunday eve. As I posted before, it was terrible watching her leave on Thursday, and it was terrible seeing her come home on Sunday.
I have pretty much validated her trip, have tried very very hard to reduce the talks about r to a bare minimum, started getting into one on sunday when she returned, she said it was very difficult for her to watch me be so sad all the time. We are living in the same place for now, and though I try mightily, often the sadness shows on my face, its almost impossible not to show it. We have been together for 13 years, and except for my tours away with the Marines over the years, have been together through thick and thin, and until june 20th of this year, I thought we were happy. She said on Sunday that for the mozt part the good times outweighed the bad, by far. She has changed over the years, what she needed in a spouse back then is not what she needs now. She is very very self absorbed, as I have read different places on this board, in many ways I am not even on her radar screen.
She is now leaving on the 22nd, as she can no longer bear to deal with the sadness in our house. Although I will miss her with all my heart, it is better that she leave sooner.
Again, thank you for posting. How are things with your sitch, I will read up to bring myself up to speed, have a good day!
m 54 XW 48 m 12 t 14 bomb 6-11 s 10-11 wife moved to other state 10-21-11 d 9-12
O GOD THY SEA IS SO GREAT AND MY BOAT IS SO SMALL!