virtually no downside to taking it slow

virtually no upside to rushing it...

what's the rush? Why this Saturday?

Why no discussion before hand?

What's up with the no notice or warning or hinting or communicating?

WTH?? Hey, this Is good news but it's easy to get carried away with it.

See the very first 2 lines above and please process them.

Why would marriage between you two now, be better or different than before?

That question has to be answered before he comes home. You don't need all the details but you better have some serious ideas and plans for how to answer it, imo. Otherwise, why won't you be back here in a year?

Good luck!


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change