How about you write up a formal agreement with W about your FWB plan....
I think you have me confused with ssmguy.
Actually my wife and I have an informal agreement worked out by our sex therapist on our vision of a "happy marriage" and we are working on that in fits and starts and making progress. It does involve fidelity, which hasn't been a problem so far.
Just thought I you tease you a bit Oldtimer.
I think that ssmguy should do some introspection regarding what he really wants and realize that if he wants to work on his relationship with his wife, that he will have a higher probability of success if he really commits himself to her. However, it is not a sure thing that reconciliation can be achieved.
>43 years of marriage--My wife and I are now closer than we have been in decades. I believe that my SSM is over.
