W told me she is done & doesn't love me anymore.

[Snowman]

Well I more of went dim on things because dark is not possible with a kid. GAL man suggested it and I was struggling hard at the time as well as everything felt like I was doing was pushing her away further.

My wife basically said I didn't do anything right when she dropped the bomb on me. She claimed we didn't do things together, we didn't talk, we didn't this, we didn't that, etc.

We are separated and my wife likes to threaten with the words about being done, divorce, doesn't love me/attracted to me, or anything like that but she in no way is decided from what I have heard from others. I have doing LRT because I felt like I was past the point of other things working besides maybe 180's.

I'm really not sure what I should be doing at this point. Our communication is strictly about our kid and limited at that. I have probably pushed my wife away even more for all I know. I don't want to be the controller or pursuer anymore as I don't think that is working.

I did pick up DR and reading that now. It has been a good read so far but I'm only a little into it. Not sure what approach I should take at this point other than working on me. Ahhhhh!