JCM, thanks for the input, Yes I have done a fair amount of the "Get a life" frequently do not answer her phone calls till next day, told her had plans, and did, went out of town for weekend, ignored her calls, I am pretty sure she even thinks I have dated some other women ( I have) so far she has not seemed too upset by it in her words, except that she noticed and commented to a freind a month ago that I was being a little mysterious? and she was a little depressed but no more signs since then that it really bothers her and she told me she wants me to find someone else and be happy?
