I don't have the time I need to reply fully so sorry about that.
But don't apologize. STFU for now. Seriously...you're human but your mouth and your logic are hurting your cause more than helping. Please my friend,
Shut up!
It's true, You don't know OW...but then again, your w doesn't really know YOU now that well either, does she?
At some level, We all believe what we want to believe and
your w has way too much ego invested in her being "right" now, than in being happy or true or
doing what's best for s4.
So back off. For all we know, what you said hit a chord or she wouldn't have cared at all what you said. You can tell her IF SHE ATTACKS you
"me thinks thou doth protest too much" or something a little low key, almost indifferent.
As a "friend" you thought she should know (which, btw, is pure BS...and you know it so I won't even bother
explaining to you how INeffective your brilliant reasoning and "inside info" worked...
it didn't, and you know it...so
back to the adage of
"Mistakes are not tragedies, but dear God let me learn from them!!"
(( ))
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016