I've been worrying about this a lot lately, but shoving it to the back of my mind. Now, it's at the forefront and I need to figure out what to do. Over the first couple of weeks after H left, I mentioned R a couple of times (rather, he coaxed me into talking about it - I think it made him feel superior or something - *gag*). Anyway, after pouring my heart out and getting absolutely zero response from him, I told him I was "done". It was said in anger (heck, even I was convinced of it at first), and now I'm afraid he doesn't realize that the door is still opened to him. If he is under the impression that I want nothing else to do with him, I'm worried that his ego would prevent him from coming to me if he felt the urge to try to work things out.
I guess my question is this:
Is there a way to subtly let him know that I am actually not done, without giving him the feeling that I am pursuing him? Or did I royally screw up and have to lie in that bed now, hoping that his ego doesn't get the best of us should he come around?
