My son wants to major in film making. I hope there will be jobs for that though. i suggested he minor in that, and go into something medical. but he said he is not going to do something he doesnt like his whole life. i told him its a different world now you cant just think of what you like you have to go for where the jobs will be. would you rather live in poverty or have a job you kind of like, what would cause more pain. I think once i file for d, h is no longer going to talk to me. once he starts down a road like the one with ow, he continues down it , i know thats how he is. I know it was a mistake to tell him to leave 2 yrs ago, cuz ow really got her claws in him by moving in with him, i was just devastated at the time, that he went back to her, after being back home for 2 yrs.