And today I heard more info on the OW - who I do NOT KNOW. Thankfully... I remember in one of MWD books it talks about getting to know what the OP is offering.... So, I asked someone who knows her for some more info.
Apparently she is someone with a huge EGO- who thinks she is 'a plane above' everyone else. She treats people she doesn't like/respect as 'stupid' and as if she has to 'teach them' something. She cannot stand to be wrong or to be corrected.
Now, I'm confused. My W - who is involved with this person.... has told me in the past that I can be arrogant, have a huge ego regarding my work/career. But, thankfully NOT that I think I'm 'above everyone' or treat people as stupid. My confidence all relates to my career - my writing, etc...
I'm confused because if these are traits W didn't like in me -- WTF is she finding attractive in this physically unattractive person? I mean -- am I missing something??? Really?
Me (f): 45 W(f) 35 T: 13 y C: S4 adopted at birth 6-18-11 bomb: I want to break up 8-28-11 OW confirmed