So I have a question, should I be going dark or showing affection. I was controlling in the marriage but I'm more than certain that my wife thinks I didn't show affection through the various forms. I have been pretty much dark for weeks now (some backsliding) and have not really seen any change. I'm just not sure the dark approach is working or not. Kind of lost.
My wife is either in a MLC or otherwise conflicted. Should I continue the dark path or try a 180 and show affection of some sort?
Me:29 W:28 S:2 M: 5 years Bomb: 7-26-11 Separated: 8-20-11 EA w/ multiple OMs W filed 1/2012
