What about going dark? Not in a way to see if w misses you, but with the understanding that you are not in a place to deal with your sitch at the moment and you aren't doing any good to your w, your m, or you until you can work through some
Thanks for your support Val. I tried going dark for a few weeks but I don't know what it will achieve. My W has gone dark on me since this happened and she moved out. It's her way of dealing with things - to put it behind her and ignore it. There is limited contact now anyway. It's just hard on me when I see her and she cries about us, or last night when I spoke to her she calls me 'baby'. There is no animosity and it makes me then talk R and tell her the path is always open if she would like to join me on working on our M. To which she said I know, thank you.
M 35 W 31 Separated 2/2011 but still together Ended it 4/2011 Together 8 yrs Married 3.5 yrs Lawyers involved 6/2011
