Originally Posted By: Valeska19

Why 8.6? Is it a certain route you do every day or is there a reasoning behind the number?

That's exactly it. There's a certain route I follow. I try to make sure I do at least 30 minutes, and I had to extend my 8.0 mile route to make sure I wasn't taking a shortcut.

Originally Posted By: Valeska19

Try not to assume the worst of w either.

You're right. Actually, this is where any NC we have works against us. I think both of us assume the worst if we don't hear anything from each other. It's burned us in the past and it's burning us now. It's hard to find that right balance between letting her miss me and getting in a situation where one or both of us just assumes the worst.

Originally Posted By: Valeska19

It doesn't sound she has really done anything to make you think that she isn't being positive around S.. unless I'm wrong. You've been posting for awhile so I might have missed it.

Continue to be there for your S. If this continues to happen.. maybe it's worth bringing up to W.

Oh yeah, my S is a HUGE priority right now. I am guilty, however, of blowing my own horn from time to time, and I'm sure that will occasionally grate on my W a bit. That's something I should be careful of.


BITS
Me:46 / W:47 / M:19 / T:21 / S13
Bomb#1: 5/8/2008
MC: 5/2008 - 4/2010
Bomb#2: 2/10/2011
W moves out 5/7/2011

'With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.' - Matt. 19:26