Val I totally understand the feeling of rejection, that hit me. I often feel like a reject. But I was thinking when I read that comment is that I'm really not a reject, trying to look at myself differently. I'm actually a great person, with baggage. I have been mostly a good husband and father with flaws. W has said during our stich. And Guess what, we are the ones here trying to save our selves and our families, where are they? No where, I bet they haven't even done any research or read anything about saving the M. My D is right now having her 1st C session, not because W thought she needed it but because people here educated me and encouraged me to get my D some help. So it worked. What I'm trying to say is that you are a great person even when you are being rejected. We are here to support you.((( Hugs)))


M 53
D 20
Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24
Together 26 yrs
Married 16
W Filed for D 7/21/11
Served 9/6/11
D final 8/28/12

“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”

John Wooden