DB'ing is soooo hard!

[Cadet]

Have you read the DR book?
I would start there.

Believe none of what she says and 50% of what she does.

I would not ask her anything unless you can have no expectations.
Sometimes asking them questions will be thought of as pressure.
You do not want to do anything that can be thought of by your W as controlling or pressure.

GAL.

Detach. - The single most important thing you can do

You have been given a GIFT
The gift of TIME. - Use is wisely.

Knowledge is Power.